The Culture and Psychology of Miyo's Reaction to Fuyu Kudo in My Happy Marriage
Spoiler alert if you haven't watched Episode 2, Season 2 of My Happy Marriage
After that painfully awkward introduction between Miyo and Kiyoka's mother, Fuyu, I had a feeling Fuyu was going to be a problem, but nothing prepared me for the disrespect of Episode 2 when Fuyu demanded that Miyo clean the house like a maid. Watching Miyo eagerly jump to complete the task made me feel like all the self-respect she gained towards the end of Season 1 went out the window. Because from my very Western perspective, this kind of treatment is tough to watch.
I'm used to stories where people break free from their abusers and, once free, never have to deal with situations like that again. Think about Cinderella. Once she escaped her stepmother, she was done with their cruelty. But I understand that with Miyo, recovering from the physical and mental trauma is easier said than done, but calling her Fuyu "kind" felt like a gut punch, a bit extreme, even for Miyo.
Cultural Context
To understand Miyo's reaction, we first need to look at Japanese culture and its strong emphasis on respecting elders and maintaining harmony. Even in difficult situations, there's an expectation to avoid conflict and to keep the peace. Other anime like Zom 100 and My New Boss is Goofy are examples of characters who often endure hardships in silence to maintain order.
For Miyo, who grew up in an abusive household where obedience was demanded, her submissive behaviors are deeply ingrained. She has spent her entire life following the rules and suppressing her needs, so it is unsurprising that she does not stand up to Fuyu.
Psychological Context
After watching Miyo reassure Kioyka that she was being treated with respect and that Fuyu was "kind," I realized that Miyo's understanding of "kindness" is deeply affected by her traumatic past. Even a small, neutral action can feel monumental to her.
In Miyo's mind, Fuyu's position as the "lady of the house" and Kiyoka's mother gives her the right to treat Miyo however she wants. Miyo likely believes that enduring this treatment is just part of her duty as a future wife in the Kudo family—and that it's all for the greater good. But Miyo's insecurities make her feel unworthy of Kiyoka's love. Instead, she endures Fuyu's harshness as a way to prove herself. It's heartbreaking to watch but also very human.
Final Thoughts on Miyo's Journey
This moment is frustrating to witness but is also a vital part of Miyo's journey. It highlights her need for growth—not only in her powers but also in her sense of self-worth. I'm hopeful that as the season progresses, we will see Miyo find her voice.
But what do you think? How did you feel about Miyo's reaction to Fuyu? Was it as jarring for you as it was for me, or did it make sense in the context of her character?